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Why
Compassion?
updated August 14, 2004
" Let
us bear one another's burdens."
Our God is a God of deep, unbounded compassion, a God who always offers
mercy, and likewise seeks mercy for all creatures. It seems incredible that
the creator of the universe, our creator, suffers with each one of us, yet
it is so. God is especially tender-hearted with the powerless victims of
oppression, greed, violence. "Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers
and sisters, that you do unto me." With these words Jesus identified Himself
completely with the little ones who are used, abused, and victimized by the
powerful, so much so that our treatment of |
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each
other
becomes the criteria
for our final judgment. Again and again throughout the New Testament we are
called to act justly, to treat our enemies as well as our friends with kindness,
mercy, and respect.
The word
compassion summarizes God's attitude towards us. We who hope to follow
Christ must enter into this same attitude of compassion towards all creation.
The compassionate one suffers with the other. When I am compassionate,
your burdens and pains become my own, and we share a common experience. Rather
than give you something outside of myself, I enter into your suffering, taking
it upon myself. Only the compassionate person is able to bear another's burden
and truly give of herself or himself. Through compassion, we can love the other;
without it, love is not possible, and all of our charitable works are no more
than the tinkling bell, the sounding gong.
Our goal on
this page will be to provide a doorway into some of the suffering of the world,
in the hopes of expanding our own sense of compassion, and as co-sufferers, seek
solutions that bring mercy and hope to a wounded world. To begin, we offer some
links to websites that focus on some major issues of social justice. Although we
cannot be responsible for the content of these pages, nor can we endorse their
content, we invite you to consider the issues they present, reading with an open
heart and a discerning mind.
Links to web pages on social justice issues
We will also focus on
some specific issues of social justice and the creative ways that our sisters
and brothers have responded in compassion.

Compassion in Action: Focus on
Hospitality
Perhaps you have wondered what it might be like to be without food, shelter,
or other basic necessities of life. In a country like the
US, it is easy to forget the many men, women and children who live on the
street, eking out an existence from day to day. Some are fortunate enough to
find shelter or a hot meal from time to time, enough to keep going for
another day. But what would it be like to be welcomed in a house where
guests and hosts are one? What would it be like to be the owner of such a
home, a home without the walls of division? Recently I had the privilege of
visiting two houses of hospitality, in Worcester, Massachusetts, which made
me ponder questions like these. St. Francis and Therese House, offering food
and short-term shelter for up to 6 people a night, is a Catholic Worker
community, staffed by residents Scott and Clarice Schaeffer-Duffy. In the
true spirit of Dorothy Day's Catholic Worker movement, they live in
voluntary poverty, earning no salary, relying entirely on donations, as they
have for the past 18 years. They have no budgets, no constitutions, no
organized funding. It costs about $33,000 a year to maintain the house, and
like all Catholic Worker houses, it is autonomous, although all embody the
spirit of the movement in their own interpretation. Should they find
themselves with a little more money than they need at the moment, instead of
putting it away for hard times, they give it away to others with more
immediate needs; nothing is saved, so that like the poor that they serve,
they are always at the mercy of others' generosity and God's providence.
Becoming one with the poor seems to be a primary goal of Catholic
Workers. They take to heart Christ's commission to find Him in our brothers
and sisters, to treat them as we would treat Christ himself. And so the
stranger is always welcomed, always treated with deep respect. The hungry
are fed, the naked are clothed, the homeless are sheltered. Whenever
possible, all needs are responded to. Yet perhaps more striking than these
acts of mercy is the dignity acknowledged in each guest, for each bears the
image of God.
Catholic Workers are sometimes criticized for not trying to change the lot
of the guests, but the goal of the movement is more basic: it is simple
hospitality. They ask no questions, demand nothing of those who come to eat,
to rest, or to spend a night or two. And yet, a revolution is at work in
this action of hospitality, what Dorothy called a "Revolution of the heart",
as they try to melt hearts of evil, including their own. Such conversion of
heart can only be possible when people live without the walls of division,
without measuring and taking account of the differences that divide us,
without using power, education, or money to keep ourselves safe from others.
Scott and Clarice have found a way to welcome the stranger into their own
home, into their lives, and they are clearly marked by this experience. They
and their children live without fear in a house without locks because "the
best lock is getting to know our neighbors." It is a radical life of
following Christ, lived quietly, in the compassion we call hospitality.
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Scott with two of his children |

Street art
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Another hospitality house in
Worcester, owned by Jo Massarelli and her husband, Marc Tumeinski, bears a
plaque of the Historical Society, testifying to its beauty and grace, inside
and out. The home speaks of welcome to a normal family life. Once allied
with the Catholic Worker movement, and still very connected to it, Jo and
Marc wanted to live a more "normal" life, not one of radical poverty. At the
same time, they also wanted to open their home to others, providing
longer-term hospitality, in a caring environment that could allow their
guests to be part of a stable community. Through their earned income, Jo and
Marc are able to offer food and shelter to those in need. But more than just
food and shelter, they offer a warm community life, in a "real" home where
relationships are essential. Guests are often recommended by Scott and
Clarice, and whenever there is room, the house is open to receive them.
Those who seek lodging are not asked about their history, no
credentials are required. The only requirement is a commitment to community,
in return for which they are allowed to stay "as long as we can all get
along," Jo explains. The community shares everything, including the car, as
guests are included in the insurance. All have chores, they eat together,
and share their lives with one another. There is no central television,
which might intrude on being in relation with one another; instead, they
read aloud or play cards. Not everyone finds this lifestyle attractive. One
guest left after 6 months, saying it was "too hard, when you have to care
about others."
Others, like Ron Wehrle, pictured above with Jo and Marc, may
become part of the permanent community. Ron, who had been imprisoned when he
was homeless (for suspected arson, because he was using a solvent to clean a
wall that was part of his corner "home") came to Jo and Marc's home 6 1/2
years ago. Now he is an essential part of the core community, himself a
master of hospitality.
It
is not surprising that locks are used only at night even though this
neighborhood has its share of gangs and drugs. As with St. Francis and
Therese House, open community relationships are the key to maintaining a
peaceful environment, without fear. Marc and Jo have found a way to
incorporate hospitality, a radical hospitality, as part of their lives.
Constantly welcoming strangers to hearth and home may seem impossible, but
for this couple it has become a way of life, a way of living Christian
compassion.
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Jo comes down to greet a passer-by |

Ron, Jo and Marc |
For more information on Dorothy Day and the Catholic Worker movement, visit
www.catholicworker.org
or
www.catholicworker.com

Please submit your comments or suggestions to
judyroxstj@aol.com
Judy Roxborough, stj
August, 2004

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